When it seems like you are banging your head against a brick wall and are not getting the results you want, what are you supposed to do?
After all you have tried, spent lots of money and still nothing worked? What have you done wrong? Well, actually you have done nothing wrong, you just forgot one important point: You were not crystal clear enough about what it is that you want to achieve.
Can you visualize how your life will be once you have reached that next level? How will you feel and see yourself once you have broken through the challenges and have overcome them?
What is holding you back? Are You being influenced by the shiny objects that are daily coming your way and can’t find your way through all the hype where everybody is touting their way, their method as the best and magic solution?
It is time to take a step back and take a look at all the information you already have. Have you even looked at all the courses and methods you have? Did you start some and then give up? Take time to have a second look at what you can use and apply to lead to the breakthrough and discard what no longer looks helpful.
Important Breakthrough Tip
Discover whom you can trust and to whom you should listen to. Remember that there is no one best way for everybody, but there is one way that is the best way for you. Every person is unique and what might work for me might not work for you.
To discover the best best way for you is listening to your gut feeling. If this sounds too far out, just give it a try anyway. The answer you are looking for is not out there, but inside you. Like in the Wizard of Oz, the Good Witch Glinda told Dorothy that she’s always had the power, she always had the answer.
If you resonate with an idea, somebody or something, it will usually work out well. However, if you let yourself be persuaded by somebody to do something and your intuition says no, you might end up regretting it and wasting your time and money.
- Learn to listen to yourself, so you won’t be easily influence by others.
- Look at the people who are shouting the loudest. Are they walking their walk or are they all talk and no action? Are they congruent?
- Learn to listen with your gut and your heart. Only listening to your head can often lead you in the wrong direction.
Often when you are trying to force something, it feels like you’re banging your head against a brick wall. On the other hand when you do the right thing, the results will come as if by magic. It just feels right.
I once had it explained to me in these terms:
- If it makes you feel heavy, often it is not the right choice.
- If it makes you feel light, it is the right choice.
You can apply listening to your gut and heart to any situation in your life. I often say, that something is talking to me. When I ignore it at the moment, I will regret it and will have to spend extra time fixing it.
The next time you are tempted by that bright shiny object that promises to solve all your problems, take a step back and ask yourself “Is this aligned with who I am?”.
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